๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ญ…๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐?
Seriously, if you’re reading this RIGHT NOW…STOP…just for a second and take in that first line above.
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง?
See, no one I know will tell me, at least when I ask them, “I want to be average.”
NO ONE will tell me, “I’m just here to participate.”
It’s become the automatic response for people to tell me that they are working for greatness on some level.
I mean, no one I talk to is stupid, so they know what to say when I ask them what their intention is.
Their mouth will start moving before their brain has caught up…
I don’t blame them, Hell…I used to be exactly the same.
๐๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก, ๐๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก.
I was sick and tired of being “better than most.”
I was f’in done with the YO-YO of temporarily winning, only to lose it all again and start over.
I was angry at EVERYONE around me.
Half-ass efforts and half-ass results.
Everyone had an excuse, AND everyone ALWAYS bailed when the “SHIT HIT THE FAN.”
Oh, everyone was a damn fan-boy as long as we were winning…ahem, as long as I was winning. But everyone found a way to leave and leave me with the mountain of Buffalo dung to sift through to claw my way to being “great” again.
I can tell you, it’s a damn roller coaster of emotions and a ton of focused effort to get your equilibrium back EVERY DAMN TIME YOUR BELL GETS RUNG TOO!!
Being the hard-headed dude I am, I finally started asking myself the REAL questions. It led me to only 1 real one too:
“Kris, what is your REAL intention?”
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ฐ๐๐ซ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ซ๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ .
What I really wanted was to START something and then coast my way to success. I wanted everyone else to do the day in, day out, monotonous work while I lived the “HIGHLIGHT” reel.
I began to see that EVERYONE I was attracting around me was living the ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐. I had attracted to me…people EXACTLY LIKE ME.
So, here are 3 tips if you’re experiencing the Yo-yo, have made a choice to go “all in,” and/or want to live an UNSTOPPABLE LIFE:
1.) ๐๐ก๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
So much information is out here about “who’s your group.” It’s another one of those clichรฉs, but WAY too many people don’t ever do anything about it.
If YOU really want to win over the long haul…you MUST put people in your life that will push you.
In today’s society of polite bullshit, we’re lifting up creampuff’s because they’re politically correct.
๐๐ ๐๐๐’๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐!!
The media doesn’t focus on people who constantly strive to live each day with intentionality, purpose, and standing in the gap between what society now deems acceptable and what it TAKES TO GET THE REAL WORK DONE. That doesn’t mean they aren’t there.
What’s AMAZING is that once you REALLY choose to be unstoppable, it’s almost as if by magic, these people start popping into your life.
You’ll also probably have to make some tough decisions about who’s in your circle now…but that takes care of itself if you are really in it 100%.
2.) ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐
You may not like this, but here’s the truth. The rest of your life is going to require HARD, sometimes boring, sometimes scary-as-shit, hard friggin’ work.
Not sometimes…๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฆ๐ง ๐๐๐ฒ.
It doesn’t mean you won’t enjoy it or your life either. It simply means that you understand and commit to NEVER being a victim again.
It isn’t anyone else’s fault that your milk got spilled or you are mistreated. IT’S JUST PART OF THE HARD WORK OF GROWTH.
๐๐ฆ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ ๐ข๐ญ…the discipline of that mindset will set you free with what it ACTUALLY takes to win.
It will also take away that feeling of “something’s missing” in your life because you will BE IN PURPOSE ON PURPOSE!
You will use the “wins and losses” as a measuring stick, not a defining MOMENT in your life.
When you’re training every day, you’re bound to win, and you’re bound to lose. Celebrate the wins and learn from the losses. If you have breath tomorrow, it’s just another OPPORTUNITY to do the work again.
3.) ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ฆ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ ๐๐ซ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ค๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ฆ๐ง ๐๐ก๐จ๐ญ!
I promise you that as you are FULLY committed to living an unstoppable lifestyle, you are going to get a little salty. Your tolerance for other people’s BS is going to grow thin.
Your tolerance for YOUR BS will grow thin too!
You’ll be confronted with your limiting beliefs. You’ll see where you AREN’T going all in. You’ll find yourself wanting to be RADICALLY HONEST with yourself and other people. You’ll begin to seek out clarity with every conversation that’s in your head, messes with your gut instincts, and diverts you from a path you know is true in your heart.
You’ll eventually start to see that IF you’re willing to do whatever it takes, why not attach a goal worthy of such effort. Your group will be doing the same thing…and guess what??
You’ll start to DO the same things THEY DO to GET WHAT THEY HAVE too!!
You’ll simply begin to believe that YOU ARE WORTHY of more…all because you are committed to more.
Damn, am I passionate about seeing people win. I’m committed…
The question really is…
๐๐๐ ๐๐๐?
I’ll see you in the trenches…or I won’tโyour choice.
