These days there are just too many damn people running around with a victim mentality. They blame Trump; they blame politics; they blame others for their struggles. Many folks have simply given up on trying to win the game of life. Instead of being a hero, they have decided to be the victim.
I’ve been there. There have been plenty of times in my life where I’ve asked, “Why me?” and felt like the world was against me. Then I realized the world is against me, all of it, but there’s a way to leverage what’s formed against you so it works to your own benefit.
It starts with your thinking. As I always say, “When you change your mind, you change your life.” The mindset of “poor me” has to go. You’ve got to make the shift from poor me, to more me.
Think of every experience as a learning lesson. What did you learn, where can you grow because of this learning experience? There are four key areas my mentor Kevin Nations taught me long ago. In every experience, you should look to leverage the experience to grow in one or more of these core four areas.
The Four F’s
These four areas are the very pillars your entire life is based on. These are the most important four areas you could possibly focus on. Next time you feel like a victim, think of how you can leverage that experience into growth in these four areas. Go from Poor Me to More Me. How can you become/give more?
In this video, I’ll go over the process in great detail. This video is a game changing, mind-bending extrapolation of thoughts that will alter your thinking. Enjoy and implement.