Real Men Don’t Run Alone

Posted on May 05, 2020

Kris Whitehead

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All my life, the single hero mentality has been reinforced. From Batman to Superman, to Wolverine…it’s always “me against the world baby.”

 

The TRUTH is there is no such thing as a self-made man or woman.

 

It’s an illusion of a bygone era, the Marlboro man died and took his breathing machine with him.

 

Look, I know you can run fast alone, but you can run A LOT further together. The problem is, if you’re like most people, you’ve tried it once or twice and found THAT crowd didn’t serve you much.

 

I’m going to give you 3 keys to finding the right group and end with letting you know how massive an impact the right CREW can have on your business and your life.

Real Men Don’t Run Alone

The first thing to finding and running with the right group or attracting the right group to you is to know who you are and what you really stand for. In life, they call it your “purpose,” in business, it’s called your “core values.”

 

Without knowing who you are or what you really stand for, you’re going to base the selection of your group on intuition or, worse yet, your feelings.

 

Not that either of those isn’t essential…but neither is a great judge or barometer for who you are willing to stake your business success or personal life on, am I right?

When YOU know what you stand for…You will see what you want…

Secondly, when you do begin to find someone, or even better, a team of people who are already running together who have the same core values as you do, you begin to observe. Soon enough, if you’re brilliant, you’ll start to serve.

 

You’ll see where who you are and what you do, can really begin to add benefit to the group. You can really start to add massive value just by being you and serving. Serving without concern about what you’ll get from the experience. Why?

 

Well, when you’re aligned with the right people, and you genuinely serve…you receive. You often receive MORE than you give. Don’t worry if it doesn’t seem to be happening at first…that’s just your past experience talking to you.
 
When you’re in the RIGHT group, you truly cannot outgive what you get in return. It will return with gained interest.

Give and let the Law of Reciprocity work for you…

Third, and MOST important; once you’ve begun giving to your group, you’ll start to feel an urge to become MORE authentic.

 

Some see that as more vulnerable, and I guess that has a lot to do with their ego and experience living in their own skin, but I promise as you strive toward better outcomes, you’ll be required to dig deeper.

 

You’ll be required to become a more elite version of yourself to shed things that don’t serve you or the group. That level of transparency is what allows you to breeze through tough choices, yours, and the groups. They will know you speak the truth regardless of the results.

Authenticity is REQUIRED to excel in the right group…

So, who are you? Are you willing to be a go-giver, and are you ready to SHOW up? These are the qualities that will land you in the RIGHT group. What can YOU do with the right group? A better question is… what can’t you do?

 

With the right group, people have built monuments that withstand the test of time.

 

With the right group, people have created nations that represent personal freedom and collective choice.

 

With the right group, even a small one, lives for countless generations have been changed forever…

 

What can YOU do with the right group? Any damn thing your mind can conceive…

 

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