I’ve got good news for all the ladies out there: chivalry is not dead! It may have been on life support in the last decade or so, but one man, named James Michael Sama, is on a mission to resurrect the art of being a gentleman. That mission is highly successful so far. With over 1 million blog readers, and nearly 100,000 facebook fans, the message is getting out. And women are playing a large part in helping James spread his message. One of the main reasons many men don’t act like gentlemen, is because it takes work to be chivalrous. Open doors, buying flowers and all the other stuff you should be doing for the special lady in your life, takes effort. Many dudes just don’t make the effort. Why is making the effort worth it? You’ve heard the saying “a happy wife is a happy life” or “if mamma ain’t happy, no one’s happy” right? You also know that if you aren’t keeping your woman happy, she will insure that you too share her misery. Trust me, none of us want that. It’s also worth the effort because who wants to have an average relationship? That shit is boring. If you go out of your way to make her happy, chances are, she will go out of her way to please you to. You can’t lose.
Dating is a lot like anything else in life; you get out of it what you put into it. If you want to have an average life, do average shit. If you go above and beyond, your life and relationship will reflect the extra effort. On this episode I was lucky enough to get one of my bribes to work on James Michael Sama. Truth be told, I’ve been reading his shit for quite a while. Apparently so have millions of other guys and gals. The content he puts out consistently pushes the message of common sense, when it comes to being a good dude. James is what we call a ‘”Triple Threat” he’s young, good looking and he’s a charmer. I’m sure the dude has full time security hired just to keep the groupies at bay. James and I talk sales, internet marketing, women and how to be a good dude all in less than 45 mins.
If you have a pair of balls between your legs, you don’t want to miss this episode.